"As a connecting link, or traditionally third position, between all opposites, the soul differs from the terms which it connects...It is not life that matters, but soul and how life is used to care for soul." James Hillman, Re-Visioning Psychology, pp. 174-175
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I see war or conflict as a necessary and normal part of the Cosmos – whether these conflicts show up as comets smashing into planets, stars in perpetual nuclear fusion, rain eroding rocks, or time withering once smooth skin. The cosmos is a place of war and peace.
I disagree with the sometime myopic ideologies of both Progressives and Conservatives. Conservatives sometimes see war as a solution while Progressives sometimes see war as something that must be eliminated. I see both ignoring the evidence found in Nature and Psyche. When I see bumper stickers advocating War or advocating Peace, as though one could exist on this planet without the other, I find myself in disagreement with both extremes.
Many in the New Age Movement suggest that we are evolving as a species into a planet of peace, while the more traditional religions often suggest that the world will get worse, eventuating in an apocalypse. I see no evidence that either trend will overtake the other. Both extreme views are missing the point of earthly existence: we are here to make souls, and all of the opposites have been built into the psycho-cosmic curriculum for that process.
This third way is not a
synthesis or blending of the two extremes, but a middle path that sees both
sides as normal and necessary for the game of Soul-making. The football game
metaphor works well. The aim of a football game is goal-making, requiring rules
that allow moments of brutal violence and moments of huddled tranquility. Now imagine
a football game where the compassionate Progressives argue that the players
ought to completely stop blocking and tackling each other, while a group of hawkish
Conservatives argue that the players ought to be able to block and tackle each
other the entire game. The game works because it has fixed rules of conflict and
concord to be followed for the purpose of goal-making. Similarly, this is how
the human soul making game operates—by the laws of opposites. We did not create
this game, we merely play it, consciously or unconsciously. (Incidentally, this
is how all relationships function in a soul-making universe).
There is an African Swahili Warrior Song: “Life has meaning only in the struggle. Triumph or defeat is in the hands of the gods….so let us celebrate the struggle.” The same notion is found in Hinduism where the Divine Lord Krishna claims that He generates little babies while He devours the corpses of dying men on the battle field. The mystical poet William Blake wrote: "Without Contraries is no progression. Attraction and Repulsion, Reason and Energy, Love and Hate, are necessary to Human existence.”
There is an African Swahili Warrior Song: “Life has meaning only in the struggle. Triumph or defeat is in the hands of the gods….so let us celebrate the struggle.” The same notion is found in Hinduism where the Divine Lord Krishna claims that He generates little babies while He devours the corpses of dying men on the battle field. The mystical poet William Blake wrote: "Without Contraries is no progression. Attraction and Repulsion, Reason and Energy, Love and Hate, are necessary to Human existence.”
Each person is here to
experience duality in order to make a deep and fascinating soul. In this view everyone
is “spiritual” because souls are being sculpted in each moment, whether one is an
atheist or agnostic, Jew or Taoist, church-goer or heroin addict. Like a butterfly struggling to get out of the chrysalis, each of us is struggling to emerge from the undivided into the individuated.
In this view,
“spirituality” is not a little slice of life where you chant, pray and get happy
on Jesus or Energy Crystals. Full spirituality is found in the clash of Contraries,
in war and peace, cancer and health, loss and gain, eating gourmet food or
eliminating waste. The world of Nature is our teacher: Sharks kill seals while ants
organize colonies, lions kill gazelles while birds sing songs in the Spring,
frost kills leaves while the sun rises over a blue lagoon, people divorce while
lovers share a first kiss, and on and on…
Don’t get me wrong, I WAY prefer
peace, health and prosperity – but I also preferred to skip algebra, and to watch
TV rather than memorize my spelling words when I was in school; that which is
easier and preferred is not always the most beneficial.
So with Hillman I choose the third position between the necessary contraries. And when I am ravenously tackling and blocking those I oppose, I remember that it is not personal. And when it gets personal, I eventually take a breath, reset my heart to a soul-making stance, and only then do I understand what Jesus meant when he said: “Love your enemies, and bless those who oppose you.” Our enemies are the artists of our unique souls.
So with Hillman I choose the third position between the necessary contraries. And when I am ravenously tackling and blocking those I oppose, I remember that it is not personal. And when it gets personal, I eventually take a breath, reset my heart to a soul-making stance, and only then do I understand what Jesus meant when he said: “Love your enemies, and bless those who oppose you.” Our enemies are the artists of our unique souls.